Talk to most couples today and you will find that some of the women are older than their significant other.
The older woman younger man seems to be the latest news in relationships. But this has been going on for generations…check you family history and you just might find that your Great Grandma was much older
than ole Great Grandad.  Admittedly no relationship is a breeze and the culprit happens to be age: 
As the couple gets older the man starts to see the aging of the woman and he begins to see her as “the older woman.”  A lot of younger men are actually interested in older females these days because these women are looking  younger than they have in the past. We all know that  50 is now 40 and we are taking care of our
bodies more and dressing younger. But, is that why younger men are attracted to us. No, No, No! It is simple because we are more sexier than ever.  Cougars are more confident, mature and know what they want and
what they like.

What is a Real Cougar Woman? She is style, she is grace, she is smart, she is a leader. She has worked hard, learned a lot and excelled at whatever she chose to do. She doesn’t ever have to apologize for being successful – she has earned her stripes.  “Real Cougars” are business women, and they were wives and are mothers. A “Real Cougar” is not defined by a band on her finger, it’s her attitude about life. She is a woman who is constantly looking for new opportunities and knows how to get what she wants. Sometimes things don’t work out exactly as she plans, but she grows from each and every experience.

In folklore a cougar quietly take control of a situation. Sometimes this can lead to conflict with others over territory. A cougar is associated with leadership and teaches decisiveness in the use of personal power. True leadership through gentle assertiveness is what cougar teaches those with this totem. Cougar people are often very sure of themselves, not taking any unnecessary steps or exerting any extra energy beyond what is required of them to achieve their goal. Most cougars learn by trial and error, which strengthens them and hones their skills.

A cougar will leap at opportunities. They take control of their lives and circumstances most effectively.

Hot and sexy older woman, usually in her 40s or 50s, Single who is sick of her same-age counterparts which are usually hairless, have big guts, who only talk about their insurance premiums and have the TV remote control attached to their hands.

Cougars are women in their sexual prime who prefers to hunt than be hunted. They are usually interested in men under the age of thirty, as Cougars prefer to mate with men who still have hair.  Also, Cougars are non-committal, older and more practiced in the ways of snaring a mate so they will rarely broadcast their intentions to sleep with you until you are already in her car, headed for the condo she just bought. It is this elusive behavior that earns her the name “Cougar.”

So....you want to be a Cougar.

• First, it's all about the right attitude.

You must be self confident and walk the walk without the talk!  Have a distinct Purpose and the ability to see the forest over the trees. 

• You need an attractive persona.

Be a head turner! To be in the company of other Cougars you have to bring on your "A" game.  A clean style that fits your body is flattering. You do not have to be a size 2 to be attractive.

• Must be Classy & Independent.

A Classy woman is the most desirous to any man. Dress age appropriate but sexy - use your full length mirror. You have to be the independent woman who does not need a man for financial support.

• Desire is the main ingredient.

The desire is to hunt and catch your prey. You have to want it to get it!

If you have already made your mark and see being a Cougar as a fulfillment in your life.

Get out there and strut your stuff!

Keep your eyes on the prize!